Monday, March 17, 2008

Girls Vs. Grown Women?---Off Hair Topic

This is a poem of thought, it's open to each persons opinions on each issue.
I got it from my girl Mo, please read it and enlighten me.
Let me know what your thoughts are.
Have any examples that make some points into an exception in your personal case?
Are grown women asking boys to be a man?
Are grown women looking for grown men but acting like girls?
Are the points TRUE or NOT?
I personally think so.

Grown Women:

Girls want to control the man in their life.
Grown women know that if he's truly hers, he doesn't need controlling.

Girls check you for not calling them.
Grown women are too busy to realize you hadn't.

Girls are afraid to be alone.
Grown women revel in it using it as a time for personal growth.

Girls ignore the good guys.
Grown women ignore the bad guys.

Girls make you come home.
Grown women make you want to come home.

Girls leave their schedule wide-open and wait for a guy to call and make plans.
Grown women make their own plans and nicely tell the guy to get in where he fits.

Girls worry about not being pretty and/or good enough for their man.
Grown women know that they are pretty and/or good enough for any man.

Girls try to monopolize all their man's time (i.e., don't want him hanging with his friends).
Grown women realize that a little bit of space makes the 'together time' even more special-and goes to kick it with her own friends.

Girls think a guy crying is weak.
Grown women offer their shoulder and a tissue.

Girls want to be spoiled and 'tell' their man so.
Grown women 'show' him and make him comfortable enough to reciprocate without fear of losing his 'manhood'.

Girls get hurt by one man and make all men pay for it.
Grown women know that was just one man.

Girls fall in love and chase aimlessly after the object of their affection, ignoring all 'signs'.
Grown women know that sometimes the one you love, doesn't always love you back-and they move on, without bitterness.

Girls will read this and get an attitude.
Grown women will read this and pass it on to other Grown women and their male friends.

What parts do you agree or disagree with?


Anonymous said...

I would have to say I have a both girl and grown woman in me...LOL!!!

Don said...

First off, thanks for the kind words. My blog gets a littel edgy @ times but its in good thought.

Girls get hurt by one man and make all men pay for it.
Grown women know that was just one man.


It should be illegal how many females make new men pay for the mistakes of past men.

SeZ said...

MeikMeika: ;}-
On what points? Please do tell.

I agree with you on that and I'm also guilty of doing the "blame game" with men myself in the past. Your blog can be edgy at times, yes. However it is your thoughts and opinions so anyone that doesn't like it should not read it. O.K.! :-)

SistaLocd said...

I like the poem. I would have to say I have a lil both in me too or I was a little girl for some time but now that I'm older I'm actually acting like a grown woman, lol.

Salt-n-Pepper Diva said...

I loved the poem and the analogies presented within. I have grown from a girl to a Grown Woman, but it took some time! I think I hit Grown Woman around the age of 45.

Do you have any idea how hard it is to find a Man who will deal with a Grown Woman?? Luckily I did, around the age of 46.

When a Woman comes into her own, the boys go out the door because a Grown Woman will put up with very little game playing and generalized crap from anyone........and enter the Grown Man!

Grown Women are very discerning, passionate and compassionate. Grown Women are proud, self-assured and enjoy their independence. Grown Men can accept these traits in a Grown Woman and cherish and respect them.

After all, if You do not Respect yourself, who else will? If there were more Grown women in the world, Dr. Phil would not have a job!

shavonne said...

Well, I guess I'm a woman now. I think all the points are true.

So I have to post this on my blog?

Happy, Nappy, & Free To Be Me said...

I am woman hear me roar! ha ha